Free spirit. I like software engineering, gaming & gamedev, art, holistic health, nutrition AND EATING CLEAN, mindfulness, psychology, reading, writing, self improvement

See things for what they are

Circumstances do not rise to meet our expectations. Events happen as they do. People behave as they are. Embrace what you actually get.
When something happens, the only thing in your power is your attitude toward it; you can either accept it or resent it.
It is not things that disturb us, but our interpretation of their significance.
Things and people are not what we wish them to be nor what they seem to be. They are what they are.
— Epictetus

Events don't hurt us, our views of them can

Do what you have to do